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                                                                      Bernard F. Swain, Ph.D.    www.CrossCurrents.us

                         

The Lies We Live By

ÒDonÕt trust anyone over 30Ó was the slogan of a whole generation – my generation.  We had come to believe that we were growing in an age dominated by misconceptions and falsehoods.  This explains much of the Òcrisis of authorityÓ so deeply rooted in the 1960s: we came to see our leaders, and indeed most authority figures, as people guilty of misleading rather than leading.

My children grew up in a different generation, but they are beginning to learn that the problem we faced has not disappeared

Last week I spoke of Benedict XVIÕs message on the World Day of Peace with its theme of ÒThe Truth of Peace.Ó One way of understanding this message is to see it as clarifying, not only how truth lies behind peace, but how lies lie behind war. 

And just as our generation saw leaders committed to misleading us, the new generation is beginning to wise up to current deceptions.  For we live in an age saturated with deceptive yet dominant myths that cloud our true path to peace on earth. I can think of at least six lies we live by, lies that induce us to tolerate war while dismissing peace as an unreal ideal:

The ÒChristian NationÓ myth. For more than a decade weÕve been fighting Òculture warsÓ that divide our country and even estrange us from our allies. Much of this battle is about preserving AmericaÕs status as a ÒChristian nation.Ó But the same First Amendment that denies any Christian church a privileged status over other Christian churches also denies Christianity itself from holding any privilege over other religions. American culture is certainly rooted in a Christian past, but our nation is officially impartial about religions. So as our population gets more diverse, we can see a truly multi-religious culture on our horizon. To ignore this truth (or worse, to deny it or defy it) could condemn American culture to a chronic polarization that disqualifies us as Peacemakers.

The Democracy myth. We like to think we live in a democracy, and that we can model and champion democracy elsewhere. Some Americans even think that is our national mission. But if democracy means Òthe consent of the governed,Ó the truth is that millions of Americans have precious little consent-power over the forces that govern their lives.

In the marketplace, the workplace, and in dealing with many major institutions around us, Americans often have little or no voice to shape events or conditions. A true democracy, for example, would never tolerate the gaping US divide between rich and poor—a divide MUCH wider than any other industrial society.

By reducing ÒdemocracyÓ to Òvoting,Ó we risk glorifying a system that leaves millions frustrated and helpless—and spreading that frustration and helplessness to other lands.

The Ameri-centric myth. With the worldÕs biggest army, itÕs natural for us to assume we can command everyoneÕs attention and even Òcall the shotsÓ in world affairs. But the truth is, the world does not revolve around the US. It was very striking that the Pope's World Day of Peace message never even mentioned the US. His entire analysis of world peace focused on the very areas----nuclear weapons, arms trade, international law, diplomatic relations—where recent US performance has been weakest. The sad truth: the biggest army is NOT the way to peace. A peaceful world will be centered on an international order the US cannot control.

The Vigilante myth.  For at least 40 years the US has repeatedly intervened in other sovereign nations to achieve ÒnobleÓ ends. We are supposed to believe this preserves international order. But even if we suppose the ends were legitimate, this means the US has repeatedly taken the law into its own hands. Pope BenedictÕs message made clear that respect for the rule of law is a fundamental ingredient in peace. But that means accepting this truth: The Wild West is gone forever, and vigilante posses have no place in a peaceful world.

The Terror Villain myth. We crave security, and weÕve been led to believe that we can get it by locating and eliminate the Òbad guys.Ó For all Christians, the lie is obvious: evil is within ALL of us, so we can never create a world of pure innocents, we can only build a world where love is stronger than the evil that remain in us, and so controls it.

The Righteous Cause Myth. For too many of us, noble intentions are enough to justify almost any action. But the end, however noble, can never justify evil means. This is the core principle, for example, behind the Catholic theory of a just war: that we must justify our conduct of war, not merely our cause for war. The same thing also underlies the ChurchÕs support for international law. The truth is, good intentions alone are not enough to justify jeopardizing peace.

These myths sedate our faith, tranquilize our zeal to build peace on earth, and con us into complacence about our chronic dependence on war. 

Pope Benedict was right, I think, to link peace and truth. We cannot expect the worldÕs people to admire us, let alone to see us as beacons of peace, if they do not believe us or find our beliefs based on fallacies. We must show ourselves to be truthful, honest observers of the challenges we face. We must resolve that we cannot allow anyone to mislead us if we expect to lead others.

And this may mean realizing that what we often mistake for ÔrealismÓ others detect as denial. If we live by lies, we will be rutted in war—as we have been for nearly 100 years. If we really desire a peaceful world, we must begin by making our peace with the truth.  JohnÕs Gospel tells us ÒThe truth shall make you free.Ó That means free from war at last, free for the peace on earth that JesusÕ coming promised.

Do we believe that? If we do, then itÕs time to start living it.

© Bernard F. Swain PhD 2006

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Bernie Swain has devoted more than 30 years to adult spiritual formation in dioceses in the US, Canada, and France. Since 1991 he has maintained a private practice as trainer, teacher, and consultant to leaders in parishes and other religious organizations. He holds degrees in theology and political science from Holy Cross, Harvard, The University of Paris, and The University of Chicago.

His writings include Liberating Leadership (Harper & Row, 1986) and more than 200 articles in periodicals such as The National Catholic Reporter, Commonweal, The Miami Herald, The Catholic Free Press, The Pilot, Harvard Theological Review, and Liturgy.

A lifelong layperson, he lives in Boston with his wife and three children. Visit his website at:

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